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Friday, August 1, 2008 

myLot discussion 8.1.08 - love is cruel sometimes. would you agree?

at first i agree with the expression "love hurts" but not until i have puzzled things out about that very common expression! almost all of us are familiar of those two words and to some, familiar of the feeling itself! you said it right, it is nice to fall in love, its an unexplainable feeling as if describing it as being happy is an understatement. being in love causes you in euphoria, so ecstatic -- an extreme happiness is what you feel when you're in love, right? so based on that feeling it can give you, love is so good! but admit it or not, when you love, you also hope that that very person you love will also love you even just a bit.. you hope from the smallest thing until that person gives you a hundred percent of what your ideal expectation from him/her.. as you love, you have the tendency that your hope grows too. so basically, when you love, you also hope.. BUT if one day, you feel that one of your hopes is broken, there you get the expression that "love hurts".. come to think of it! its not actually love that hurts you, rather, its your hope that hurt you! when you hope too much, you'll get hurt too much!

to sum it up, for me, LOVE DOES NOT HURT, IT IS HOPE THAT HURTS!

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discussion starter: myLot member malouisa
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Tuesday, July 29, 2008 

myLot discussion 7.29.08 - does physical attraction always comes first before emotional connection?

physical attraction usually happens fast even just at one glance to a person.. and looking for the emotional connection is not as easy though until you take the first step of having conversation with the person, usually finding something in common that both can relate!

is that always the situation? physical attraction before emotional connection? or are there also instances where emotional connection is noticed or felt first before the physical stuff? what do you think?

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discussion starter: ME
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Saturday, September 8, 2007 

one should be unfair to be fair and be treated unfair for them to be fair

i actually read this line in one of the response in the discussion i've started in mylot..

confusing line, right? but this exactly the line i am trying to construct, thinking about some emotions that hit me these past few months.. i have the idea but this certain mylotter got not only the idea but the exact words too.. intelligent guy, he is..! LOL!

but anyway, i guess its not always good to follow what you think is right.. i mean you're doing the right thing for yourself but unintentionally or maybe intentionally, you are causing pain and hurt to other people.. simply speaking, doing the right thing does not always bring the good thing..

reality bites and we really have to think and do actions not only for our own good but for others around us as well..

**whoever got the chance to read this post, i want to know what's your view on this.. i will appreciate the pros and cons of this discussion.. thank you..

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